teammates

where does it start and where does it end.

i mean i have this homegirl that keeps making bad decisions and creates and fabricates things in her head to make them bigger and more drama than they need to be.

she met a guy got his number.. they go to the same school kinda have the same circle of friends.. they cruised one time maybe two. she found out that he tried to get at her teammate but her teammate told the dude she got a man. my homegirl flipped out.. not at her teammate but at the guy. she went on ranting about how she hates guys and they are all the same! ..

she claims she hates and doesn't trust guys. BUT yet she wants a man!
1. if u want a guy you cannot hate him off the bat
2. NO dude is gonna be with you if you don't trust them
3. guy's hate it when you compare them to the rest .. true they might all act the same but they are not the same person, therefore they can all change and react differently.

you gotta want to be in a relationship, and have to want to be with that person && not do it because it's convenient for both parties. i say this because i love her as a friend and i want to see her happy ..she was trippin that he tried o get at her roommate but news FLASH everyone tires to get at everyone's room/team mate at one time or another... i have dated guys on the same team.. they didn't trip... and she is trippin that he spit game at her teammate well at least he didn't fuck some of your teammates like others that we know.

if there is noo flag you cannot claim the territory... just because you visit a country does not make it yours and you don't become a local.
just because you kick it with a guy once or twice does not make u his girl, and does not put a status on ur relationship. just like a country.. a relationship take time to develop.

if you want big love you gotta take big risks... she isn't willing to take that risk.. she doesn't want to get hurt again.. we have all been hurt and will get hurt but its the risk we take when we want something amazing like love.